We’re getting married!
It’s happening. At long last, after years of texts, time zones, and making out at mildly inappropriate moments, we’re getting married. The ceremony will be short. The party, gloriously long.
The day
Cocktail chic. Cady will be in red. Henry will wear a suit. You, however, should dress for your most confident, comfortable self. Bonus points for outfits that can handle dance-floor heroics and Oxford cobblestone.
What to wear
Ceremony 17:00
Oxford Registration Office
1 Tidmarsh Ln, Oxford OX1 1NS
A ceremony at Oxford Registration Office so streamlined we’ll be legally wed before your wine kicks in. We only have room for immediate family and friends—please join us for the reception.
We’re keeping it casual, abundant, and fueled by love (and carbs). After the ceremony, we'll have lots of good, basic food to keep everyone happy and ready to dance. Drinks will flow with an open bar that everyone’s contributing to—bring a bottle, grab a glass, and join the party.
Yes, there will be cake.
Dinner 18:30
Reception 18:00-2am
The Varsity Club Oxford
9A High St, Oxford OX1 4DB
Dancing, drinks, and the kind of music that leads to good stories and bad decisions.
We’re handing the aux cord to our guests. If you want a spin behind the decks (or just want your favourite track on the setlist), let us know in your RSVP message.
This night is for dancing like no one’s grading you.
DJ Us, Please
Registry
A Note on Gifts
Your love, presence, and joy are truly all we need. Honestly. We didn’t plan on doing a registry, but some of our dear family members very lovingly insisted—so here it is.
Please don’t feel obligated. But if gifting is your love language, we’ve curated a small list of things to help us build our cozy little life together. Thank you for celebrating with us in whatever way feels right to you.
RSVP
RSVP
Please let us know by 1 August, so we can stock the bar accordingly.